SELF ESTEEM

"We, the humans are the ones, who would build and constitute ourselves." We are independent, i.e., we don't take aid from anyone in our lives to accomplish any task in our life. It is the set of actions executed by us that best defines us. One always wants to live a dignified way of life. He wouldn't prefer to live in a place that has a dearth of dignity. Self esteem can indeed be defined as a driving force that would make us stand up against the injustice prevailing around us. It is a matter of fact that everyone abhors the society where they aren't respected. A self esteemed person will face all the greatest odds of life and desires to stand on his own leg at each and every phase of his life. Having respect for self and awareness about self are the keys to success in life. One would then be able to scrutinize and examine his strength and weakness. It is unfortunate that most of the citizens in our country are unaware of their rights. But once they would become aware, they being self esteemed in nature, would struggle for their rights. A self esteemed person always thinks that he does the best of all and he overlooks the possibility of him not being better. He displays generosity towards everyone, by helping others in their hour of need. A self esteemed person knows the activities that causes harm to him or puts him down. 

The main components for a person to be called as self esteemed are his belief that he can excel in certain task and he is admirable to others because of his thoughts and actions. He has sown the seeds within him that he has the power to do whatever he wants. He has set his own boundaries in his life that he would cross or not. He doesn't abide by the things that he feels to not have truth in it. If he feels that his rights have been taken away from him, then he sets his heart to take his rights back. He doesn't build any delusions in his life. He also doesn't believe in the very act of self deprecation to be beneficial. A self esteemed person doesn't fight for small and trivial issues that make no sense to him. It's said that one shouldn't break relationship, because relationship once broken is hard to reconcile. Similarly, trust once gone is difficult to muster or summon. Like ways, self esteem seems to be very fragile, it can be broken very easily, but it's very difficult to reconstruct it. Citing or taking insights from the example of a girl, who was well educated and aware of her rights and was self dignified, she saw the injustice prevailing against her; then her heart couldn't bypass that incident and it in turn made her fight against it. Hence, self esteem is a physical force that enables us to self monitor or examine ourselves and mend our ways for good. Self esteem can be categorized as inflated, high and low self esteem. One should never have low self esteem. Having low self esteem can lead the person to accept criticism that people make about him. He wouldn't be then able to understand his inner strength sparkling from within and he doesn't know his self worth. Hence, it is similar to epoch making to have self esteem in life, as it might bring changes in your life. A self esteemed person can fight against many hurdles and emerge victorious. How much one values himself would be how much he values others. A self esteemed person can hence manage his family and friends.

"One should believe in self prestige, that enables one's own repute."

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